We Vibe from Betty’s ToyBox

As a Betty’s Toybox affiliate member I am always excited to try new adult toys. This time I got to rest out the We-Vibe Jive Wearable Hands Free G-Spot Vibrator. I was already familiar with We Vibe brand and know they make high quality toys. I have had no issues with any I already own, so getting a new We Vibe to add to my collection was a no brainer!

This toy is really for ANYONE! Do you like be stimulated inside or out? Do you like handsfree? Do you like bluetooth and USB charging? Then you would like the We-Vibe! This is primarily made for the female to insert and reach the treasured G spot. The smooth silicone texture makes for very easy insertion and movement. There is only one small button so it is easy to turn on and change between the 10 intense vibrations. Let your partner control this little gem from their phone up to 30 feet away and you will be one happy woman.

My favorite feature is the bluetooth capability. This is one high end and high tech device. Upgrade from those awful “vibrating panties” and get a real toy with a 2 year warranty!

The We-Vibe is also waterproof safe and USB chargeable with a very simple magnetic connector. The toy itself is very comfortable and flexible for anyone. In fact it got quite slippery, but that was only downside.

This is a very high quality toy and We Vibe stands behind their products. I look forward to seeing what else they come out with!

To get this toy and so many more use my affiliate link below.

Betty’s Toybox!

Special Thanks to Betty’s Toy Box and We-Vibe!

CowCow Plus Size 2.0!


I was chosen as a 2017 Cow Cow Plus Size Ambassador! This is my second time working with Cow Cow and you can see my first post from 2016 in my archives. As a Plus Size Ambassador I was gifted 5 apparel items and naturally I went with mostly dresses! Because all products are made from a very stretchy mix of spandex and polyester, the dresses are my favorite rather than leggings or tops. For those not familiar with Cow Cow it is a unique online clothing company specializing in all over print. Anyone can design a print and send it to be sold on their site! There are literally 1,000’s of prints and products. Though I am partial to their dresses they have all types of clothing for men, women and kids and also bags, magnets, mugs, shoes, and more.

Black Cat Dot Skater Dress, 3XL: The skater dress is my favorite style from Cow Cow because I love how it hugs my waist and flares at the hips. I could wear a skater dress everyday in the summer, its so comfortable and cute. I prefer the sleeveless like above. This design is unique because it has the different print on top, an oddity for Cow Cow so I was so excited when I found it. Plus its freaking adorable. Meow Meow!


Sweet Pattern Sleeveless Skater Dress, 3xl: Last order I got a donut dress that I got so much amazing feedback on so I knew I needed another sweet treat print! This one I fell in love with because of how light and girlie it is. Again perfect for a summer day or night. I got a 3XL again and it fits perfect. The dress hugs my chest and waist to show off my figure while flaring out at the hips where I need more room anyway. It sits just above my knee which I like, especially since I’m only 5’3.


Skeleton Pattern Lace Up Front Bodycon Dress, 3XL: This LACE UP bodycon was a new one I found on Cow Cow and I LOVE IT. I have one other bodycon that is super sexy and tight, but this was with corset like lace up on front is amazing and constructed nicely. These lace up detail is so cute and actually does a little cinching. I do not have it pulled tight in these photos, because leaving as is was more comfortable. I highly recommend this bodycon style because it is the perfect little dress for nights out. Dress it up with heels and a cute clutch. I felt like a total sex bomb in this number. As a bodycon it is of course tight all over, but the fabric that is used for all Cow Cow items is super stretchy.


Black Skeleton Cap Sleeve Dress, 3XL: Apparently I wear a lot of black. HAHA I knew this already but now here is more proof. I found this fish print and just had to have it! Especially since it was on a black background. This dress is just like the skater dress expect a little less flare in the bottom and has short sleeves. Personally, I hate sleeves but I wanted to try them. They are a bit tight on me, which is what I was worried about, but it wont stop me from wearing this. Maybe I have XXXL arms, I’m not sure…

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Small Christmas Red Polka Dot Hearts On Snow Bikini, 3XL: I GOT A STRING BIKINI! This is a major FIRST!

I have never owned anything but fatkinis, but I said “Fuck It” I want to do this all the way! So I found the cutest smallest polka dot bikini. HEART polka dots! How insanely cute. This bikini is made very well, it even has small pad in cups so its not just fabric. No support or lift, but that is the style of top I picked out. The bottoms tie great and hold up just fine. Made very sturdy for such small items. I will be rocking this on vacation!


Thank you Cow Cow for exceeding my expectations with these fun prints and great stretchy garments! I cant wait to explore your website again for find fun and unique prints. Again I wore a 3xl in all items above. I am a 20/22 and 5’3. I suggest sizing up if you are in between sizes because this fabric does hug all your curves, but always for stretch.

TooTimid.com Sex Toy Haul

I have teamed up with Too Timid, a online adult toy and lingerie website.  As I continue to explore new adult toys I plan to share my reviews here!

1. Crush Cupcake Vibrator

Love the color and size of this vibrator. I know looks don’t
matter so much but this color is so pretty! The length of 7inches and diameter
of 1.25 inches was a perfect fit for me! It filled me up in all ways and made
me feel great. The vibration I liked on the higher speeds, but I do always prefer
a more aggressive vibe. With 10 vibrating options practically anyone could find
one they love.  This is a great vibrator
in every way except it takes batteries. I prefer a USB rechargeable toy because
I never have batteries. However, if you don’t mind that I would say this toy is
practically flawless.  The size and shape
are especially comfortable and satisfying. The silicone was soft and the shape
was well designed, I had no trouble using this toy at all. Some vibrators have
no bend whatsoever or some have too much bend. This one has a small amount of
bend making it easy to insert and nice and firm while inside. It is a really
great vibrator for internal fun!

2. Bondage Set

This is a beautiful set, with my favorite colors black and
red, making it extra sexy. I immediately grabbed the paddle and felt its silky
red lace. This paddle is well made and built to last many spankings. The lace
side gives more texture to the ass while the other side is smooth for a more
stingy spanking. This is an all-around excellent paddle for anyone’s
collection.  I also thoroughly enjoyed
the ribbon and silk handcuffs. Not the usual metal cuffs that hurt, these are
much more sexy and playful. But also get the job done. These are well made and
do hold wrists in place for some light BDSM play. I really enjoyed how sexy
they made me feel while I had them on. Next in the set is an all lace black
mask. I would have preferred a mask to cover my eyes to really set my sense of
touch on fire, BUT this is a sexy fun mask to use also.  It would be great for some sexy photos also!
Last and for him is a stretchy vibrating cock ring. This is a great standard
one bullet cock ring that enhances play for both people.  The bullet was strong but not overbearing,
just the right amount to add stimulation. All in all the paddle was my favorite
item of this set because you can do so much with it and it’s so well made. This
entire set is perfect for a couples special night, a surprise bedroom gift, or
to just change it up one night. If my man bought this and surprised me with it,
using each item on me I would absolutely melt with desire!
3. Mini Vibe

As the title says this little vibe is so cute! As soon as I
got this I said “awwww” how adorable, it can go on my keychain! Or just in my
purse. Perfect for travel anywhere because it is so small. That being said it
is actually smaller than I imagined and I’d prefer a larger “head” or wand end.
Otherwise it’s absolutely perfect purse
companion.  I really love that this is
USB charging and does not require batteries. USB seems to usually give a longer
and stronger charge. Plus batteries are just a pain. This little wand also has
three settings, giving you the most vibration on high of course. For its size
it has great strength. I wasn’t sure it would do much since it’s so tiny but it
was the perfect clitoral stimulation I needed when I was playing solo. I think
this would be a great toy for any lady who loves clitoral stimulation anytime
anywhere, especially on the go!


Sexy and Sultry in Curvy Kate

Sheer Bliss Balconette Bra in Mulberry Print, size 42D. Matching panty size 24.

I  was lucky enough to have Bra Stop hook me up with two gorgeous Curvy Kate sets recently. As an avid Curvy Kate fan, I would love to wear a gorgeous Curvy Kate lingerie set everyday! Their lingerie is silky, sexy, modern, and comfortable!

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As a very known UK brand Curvy Kate is loved for their large cup beautiful lingerie. I love how Curvy Kate bras always fit me so well. Wires don’t poke in my sides or break. The quality is top notch and they make me feel drop dead gorgeous! Plus the panties always fit my large hips and belly no problem. The smooth silk these sets are made to make me feel like a porcelain goddess.

Princess Balconette Bra in Rose, size 42D. Panty size 24.

Not only does Bra Stop offer Curvy Kate they also have incredible brands like Freya, Pour Moi!, Tutti Rougue, and more! Most are UK brands that are now available in the US thanks to Bra Stop. Always remember to check if sizing is in UK or US size. Curvy Kate for example is a UK brand so you must see what your UK size is.


I cant say enough how much I love all the Curvy Kate sets I have. From everyday wear under my office attire to spicing up a little black dress. The lingerie is so versatile because it is not only comfortable but also great looking. Available in UK sizes 28D-44F Curvy Kate is made for large chested women.  Panties range from 8-24 UK Size. For sizing example I wear a 42D and 24 panty (UK).

If you haven’t tried a set from Bra Stop I highly suggest you do. The prices are great and there are always sales on top of that. No where else delivers such an array of UK lingerie to the US! Thanks for sharing the love and lingerie!


Thank you again to the wonderful team at Bra Stop for collaborating with me and providing great lingerie.

And a big thank you to Matthew Mayer Photography  @mmp_photos for the epic shots of me frolicking outdoors in my pretty panties.




How to create a sexy bedroom environment (and get a better sleep)

*Special guest post by Sarah from The Sleep Advisor!


Good news everyone – there’s another HUGE benefit to having sex. (Yay!)

Sex helps us sleep. No, I’m not talking about during the act, or even that awkward post-coital moment when he hasn’t rolled off you but has somehow managed to fall into slumber instead. Ugh.

I’m talking about that lovely, dreamy slumberland that sex can evoke, that great night’s sleep that’s been eluding you for days – or weeks? months?! – until you’ve had a good ol’ dose of nookie. When it does happen and you slide off into la-la land, you wake up rested. Refreshed. Ready for Round 2 (or 3).


But how exactly does sex help me sleep?

Good question. Well, it releases all those feel-good, stay-secure hormones like oxytocin and prolactin, which lead you to feel comfortable, relaxed and drowsy after The Big Moment. Simultaneously, it reduces cortisol levels in the body; that pesky hormone which causes those wheels of anxiety spinning in your stressed-out mind.

And you know what? More sleep can actually increase your libido, leading to – you got it – more sex. Bonus.

I’m intrigued. And I want more! How can I get some?

I’m so glad you asked. Obviously you’re in charge of sending out some serious sex appeal…but I can help you set the scene for what happens next. Because unlike what some porn directors would have you believe, there ain’t nothing sexy about fluorescent lighting


Here’s how to create a sexy bedroom environment:

1. Keep your work at the office

Or, if you work from home, make sure that your computer and other wirey-type stuff (technical term, FYI) are kept out of the bedroom. Tripping over chargers or seeing an email flash up in the throes of passion is a sure-fire way to kill the mood. So keep things separate – your work can be elsewhere but your bedroom is strictly for play.

2. Lose the gadgets

Unless, of course, you’re talking about your favourite new toy. What I mean is, your phones and laptops should be kept in another room if you can stand it, or at the very least, switched off when it’s time for bed. For one, the blue light they emit is a bad idea when you’re trying to get to sleep. Those science dudes say so, and I’m inclined to believe them.

Even more important, getting into a habit of binge-watching the latest Netflix hit with your partner won’t exactly get your pulse racing. Well, maybe it will but getting all hot and bothered about Stranger Things isn’t what we’re striving for here. So ditch the gadgets and welcome some ‘quiet time’ instead.

3. Light it up

You might be more of a ‘lights off’ person. Maybe that’s because you’ve only ever done it with a harsh 100-watt staring you in the face. In which case, I don’t blame you – after all nothing looks sexy in that kind of light. (Side note: so why the f**k do so many stores insist on blinding lights in their dressing rooms?!)

Take it from me: sex with the light on is a great idea. But like any good photographer will tell you, it’s all about finding the right light. Whether it comes from a dimmer switch or flickering candles (scented ones are even better), soft lighting helps you look and feel your best. A coloured scarf can also create a romantic glow when thrown over a lampshade; just make sure it isn’t placed over the naked bulb itself. Because we’re not after a fire here – just fireworks!

4. Focus on the senses

You’ve already created a visually pleasing environment, but what about your other senses? Those scented candles I mentioned can work a treat, as can burning some of your favourite essential oils. Or why not use the oils during a sensual massage? Then you’ll be taking care of your sense of smell and touch. Win-win.

Taste? Well, each other, hopefully! But of course there’s all those aphrodisiacs you can try before you even hit the hay. And while we may all not have oysters lying around our fridge, we can certainly give the more accessible ones – like chocolate – a try. Hell, why not bring it into the bedroom with you? Mmm, syrupy…

Sound? That’s easy, get your Barry White going – or maybe something slightly less cheesy – and start your sexy soundtrack to get you both in the mood.


5. Invest in the best

So you’ve got a bedroom that’s distraction-free, dimly lit and smelling great. You’ve dined on some delectable foods and those sultry songs have you making straight for the centerpiece of the room.

You both crash onto the bed, in a flurry of passion…and then…a haphazard spring sends you leaping up in pain.

Let’s face it. A saggy mattress or a lumpy pillow don’t exactly scream ‘sexy time’. Of course, there’s always the floor – but for me a comfortable, supportive bed for whatever you get involved in makes a big difference. Mattresses may not come cheap but get the right one and it’ll last you for a lifetime of great sex. Totally worth it.

Now that you’ve got your perfect bedroom environment, what’re you waiting for? Get to bed – you can thank me for the great sleep you’ll have afterwards later.


(This was a paid post specifically for http://www.ConfindeltyAshlee.com
Photos by Nine 23 Boudoir and James Urban Photo. Thank you!)

Sola Sync Massager, more than just a toy 

Ladies I have found your soulmate. His/her name is Sola Sync and he/she is a curvy purple babe, soft and smooth and very strong!  Sola is a 10 function wireless remote control vibrator!

Thank you to the lovely people at Betty’s Toy Box for this amazing toy! You have upgraded my life!

Ok I am an avid sex toy fan! If you are new to toys just be advised this is a serious one. Not really for a beginner, unless you really want to invest in your orgasm future. 💜

I have been a huge fan of the hitachi magic wand in the past. It was my go to get it done toy. But now the Sola Sync has taken first place in my heart. I first noticed soft silicone this toy is made of, it is so inviting! Plus the toy is flexible which really accommodates use in any postion.

The Sola is hard in the right places but not uncomfortable. (Trust me I’ve played with toys that have no flexibility.  Ouch!) The Sola grooves with your body and is easy to hold because of the extra long handle. It is even ergonomically sound! How impressive! The damn hitachi wand does not blend/move/flex at all. Its like holding a power tool. Seriously so not sexy or comfortable against your body.

The Sola Sync gives 10 options for speed and patterns. I enjoy some serious power and Sola doesnt let me down! I didn’t even need to use the highest power!

Another benfit of this wireless rechargable massager is the remote control! So even my husband gets to have fun with this toy while in another room.

This massager is great from start to finish. You can please yourself or partner with a massage on the back or chest. Run slowly down the body and intensify the vibrations by picking 1 of 10 setttings.  Keep it in play during sex too by using as a clitorial stimulator.  Aka a womans best friend. 💜

Overall I rate this 5 stars and better than the well-known hitachi wand. Out with the old and in with the new! The Sola Sync has it all and will certianly be keeping me a satisfied woman.

This post was sponsored by Betty’s Toy Box. All opinions are my own as I only give honest reviews.  

 How to rock a maxi dress!

It saddens me when plus babes say they can’t wear maxis! This is a bold faced lie! We can all wear anything. The key is wear what you feel great in!

GCGME is the place to go for the maxi of your dreams! They have colors galore, tons of patterns and styles. Ranging in size from small to 4x GCGME really has a lot to offer. From casual summer dress to formal bridal wear you will find it at http://www.gcgme.com

I was gifted the Valerie Cap Sleeve V neck cocktail dress in turquise. This color is so beautiful! I felt like a queen wearing this gorgeous garmet. I especially like the rouching in the bust area that gives the dress something extra.

I am 5’3 and wearing a 2x and it fit perfect! Normally I have to take up maxis but not these. Beyond the fit the material felt smooth and comfortable.  Made of matte jersey (5% spandex) this material flowed over my curves and had a bit of stretch. 

The quality in these dresses is top notch. You could wear a GCGME dress to prom or in a wedding. Dont risk a amazon dress or spend over $100 when GCGME can cater to your needs much better. 

The second dress I got was the Dahlia cross over vneck also in a 2x. I love the sleeves on this one especially. Again this fit like a glove and makes me feel feminie and elegant.

GCGME does also offer shorter dresses, tops, jumpsuits and more. I would highly suggest looking at the gorgeous well made dresses for any occansion. Plus size ladies dont be nervous about a maxi! Wear want you want and be proud of your body! 

Thank you to GCGME for the beautiful gowns! 

All photos by Matthew Mayer from Indianapolis. 


Bandit Bras Home Delivery!

Last week I showed you my fav panty subscription offering plus sizes so this week I’m showing you bras! Yay Bras!

The Bandit Shop is a very unique company offering bras to your door! If I can order food and clothes to my door hell yes I need my lingerie delivered also. 

The Bandit Shop stocks beautiful high quality bras made in Europe in sizes 38-48 and DD-K! These bras are impressive boutique style pieces of lingerie for large cups! No more searching online or going to tiny high priced boutiques, now simply subscribe for bras to your door.

I was gifted the red Selena Bra in a size 42E (European sizing remember) and the fit is amazing! The straps and band are a perfect thickness to keep me secure(but not too thick like a grandma bra), the underwire holds me up great and the overall feel is amazing! Plus the detail on this bra is impeccable – love the lace shell design with cutesy jewel in the middle.

This specific bra also comes in black and beige. The Bandit Shop does have a few other bra styles with more to come! You can purchase 1 bra for $65 no subscription. Or you can choose 1 of the 2 subscription options, both saving you money. See both options below:

I am so excited about The Bandit Shop and all they have to offer.  Beyond beautiful high quality bras this is also a amazing company run by a woman who supports other women! Women supporting each other, complimenting one another and, bringing full breasted women together is what I call amazing!

Thank you to The Bandit Shop for a lovely bra! 

Get your subscription started at https://www.thebanditshop.com

Plus size panties to your mailbox!

Finally I found a panty subscription for us big girls! I’ve been searching for months it seems and I am so happy I found Splendies

Three pairs of panties for $16.99 per month delivered to your door! You really can’t beat that price or the cute selections. I choose a variety pack and got 1 thong, 1 brief, and 1 lace boyshort. Perfect! Along with style choices you get 4 subscription options also.

Even better they all fit great! Every woman who loves lingerie needs to get this subscription. It honestly will save you time and money! To your door panty service is the new norm!

My only complaint is 3x is largest size so I wish they went larger and Volupties (plussize) cost $3 more a month than traditional sizes. 

I am absolutley loving this subscription plus its smart! I go through panties like mad so having 3 new pretties show up at my door is brilliant! 

Sign up for your own subscription at www.Splendies.com !